January 09, 2014

Chinese Alcohol Contains Three Kinds of Animal Penises


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Alcohol is infused with some pretty weird ingredients nowadays, but Tezhi Sanbian Jiu" or "Three-Penis Liquor" is arguably the strangest. According to Foodbeast Enterprise Endpoint Backup, the odd rice wine spirit is available in supermarkets in Shanghai and was specially brewed with seal penis, deer penis Cloud Service, and Cantonese dog penis. Traditional Chinese medicine reportedly stipulates that animal penises can help increase male vitality freemax starre pro.

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January 06, 2014

Limpid spring time



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December 30, 2013

Cranberry Sauce with Red Wine and Figs

People often ask me what Parisians do for Thanksgiving. And while many

French holidays are celebrated in America, Thanksgiving is one that doesn

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I’ve done a Thanksgiving dinner for friends and it takes quite a bit of

time to find and assemble all the ingredients. And although a few stores

that cater to American expats stock everything, it’s more fun to make

fresh pumpkin puree for pies, break up a pain au levain for stuffing, and

to get a free-range French turkey – which I found out that many poultry

sellers with rotisseries will pop it on their spit-roaster for youCCIBA, which

is a boon for those in Paris with dinky ovens.


And, if I may be so bold, Thanksgiving is a holiday where we spend eating

food that doesn’t especially appeal to people outside of the United

States. The French eat pumpkins, but roastedMen fashion, and not in dessert. (Nor

with marshmallows!) The French version of stuffing, or farce is mostly

meat, with a bit of seasonings to round out the flavor. And flour-

thickened brown gravy isn’t quite the same as sauce au jus de volaille.



So while we Americans love all that stuff for nostalgic reasons, people

in France don’t have that same set of references we do, and most seem to

politely "appreciate” it, but I don’t know any French people who hoard

molasses or stuffing mix, or spend the few months prior to November

downloading Thanksgiving recipes.

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October 24, 2013

But before we go any deeper

Nicotine vaporizer companies have a bit of a conundrum. While, legally, they can’t market themselves as smoking cessation devices, most vapers are current or former cigarette smokers. In fact, the CDC says that fewer than 4 percent people who had never tried traditional cigarettes have ever tried using a vaporizer outdoor spotlights.
I’m a smoker. It’s disgusting. I hate it. I’ve quit once before and then started up again, and I’m currently dedicating myself to quitting one last time. It’s one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done. And the Juul, in my opinion, is a huge part of that process.
But before we go any deeper, this isn’t a review of the Juul against other vaporizers. This is, rather, a review of the Juul vaporizer as I view it now, after a year of using it alongside analog cigarettes and trying desperately to replace them with this little vape.
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As I said, this isn’t a comparison of the Juul vs. other vaporizers. I’ve tried a few, but none for an extended period of time. That said, as a smoker, the Juul is actually comparable to actual cigarettes in terms of taste and sensation.
That’s because Pax examined the way that smoking cigarettes actually feels, and built the technology around replicating that sensation. The company uses salts found in natural tobacco leaves in the Juul pods to replicate a similar taste/sensation to cigarettes, which makes this one of the best cigarette alternatives I’ve personally tried.
In fact, the tobacco flavor leaves (a much cleaner) taste of cigarette in the mouth, which is a nice touch for folks who are looking to switch from real cigs to e-cigs. Juul pods come in a variety of flavors, including mint, mango, creme brûlée, fruit medley Server Hosting, and, of course, tobacco.
Depending on usage habits, the battery lasts about a day, and takes about an hour to recharge using the USB charger, which is included with the vape and also sold separately for $9.99.
The Juul is slim, easy to fit in a pocket, and isn’t quite as conspicuous as other, more heavy-duty vaporizers on the market. It has no physical buttons, but it does have a single LED indicator to tell you whether or not the battery is charged. The pods themselves are easy to change and aren’t as messy as vaporizers that require you to refill manually .
Plus, Juul Pods have become a bit easier to find. What once was primarily available online only can now be found in the lots of vape shops female short sleeve t-shirt, as well as a handful of corner stores/bodegas (at least in New York).
Overall, this $50 device has become a mainstay in my pocket.

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September 03, 2013

Aussies stay on top in third Test


Australia continued to turn the screws on England in the third Test, with Brad Haddin taking a screamer to remove Alastair Cook and keep the Ashes fire well and truly burning at Old Trafford.

Ryan Harris got Australia off to the perfect start by knocking over Jonathan Trott just nine overs into day three to have England 3-64 china vpn.

And with time very much of the essence for Australia, Mitchell Starc struck in the shadows of lunch to get key man Cook nicking down the leg-side for 62.

At lunch England were 4-119, trailing by 408.

Trailing 2-0 in the series, Australia must win at Old Trafford and pushing hard to enforce the follow-on appears their best hope.

England are still 208 away from avoiding that mark.

Cook was setting the platform for a match-saving captain's knock before 35-year-old wicketkeeper Haddin took perhaps the best catch of the series so far cheap wood bookcase.

Starc (1-31) bowled an excellent spell where he tempted the England batsmen to leave their comfort zone, and after making 66 not out with the bat - the left-armer got a thick edge from Cook, who was trying to prod him down to fine leg.

Australia's bowlers hunted in a pack and piled on the pressure to keep England restricted to two runs an over for the innings, and star batsman Kevin Pietersen (33 not out) has looked far from settled.

However, on a good batting wicket, Australia can't afford to let big partnerships build - with star Pietersen and the best batsman of the series Ian Bell (4no) now at the crease and Jonny Bairstow and Matt Prior still to come.

Rain is never far away in Manchester, and with interruptions likely over the final days, Australia need to continue to ram home their advantage.

Captain Michael Clarke kept things as fresh as possible on the third morning, switching up his bowlers every couple of overs.

However, spinner Nathan Lyon has surprisingly bowled just the three overs on moving day, despite looking particularly dangerous late on day two.

He's set to play a big role for the rest of the afternoon.

Trott has struggled all series since copping a shocking umpiring decision in the first Test.

At the same point last Ashes series, Trott had 277 runs at 69.25.

But this series he has just 111 at 22.2.

Normally incredibly disciplined, Harris (1-30) got Trott playing at one he shouldn't have, and despite the ball not doing much - it was flicked to Clarke, who took a sharp catch at second slip neo skin lab derma21.

Peter Siddle has 2-18 after making the two crucial breakthroughs late on day two.

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August 16, 2013

Man City lose friendly 2-0 in South Africa


Manuel Pellegrini's spell in charge of Manchester City started with a defeat to South African side Supersport in the first match of the English Premier League side's pre-season campaign.

The Chilean, 59, left Malaga last month to take over as Roberto Mancini's successor.

But second-half goals from Mame Niang and Kermit Erasmus ensured that Pellegrini, who fielded a different team in each half in Pretoria Tape replacement, began with a defeat in the Nelson Mandela Invitational match at Loftus Versfeld.

The 2012 Premier League champions are next in action when they face AmaZulu in Durban on Thursday.

City's Spanish internationals David Silva and Jesus Navas, a new signing from Sevilla, are joining up with the squad in Hong Kong next week, while Argentine representatives Sergio Aguero and Pablo Zabaleta will link up with their teammates in South Africa later this week.

Pellegrini has made it clear Edin Dzeko has a future with the club but the Bosnian striker passed up two early openings at Loftus Versfeld, heading straight at Ronwen Williams from a cross from new signing Fernandinho.

Dzeko also shot straight at Williams after a poor throw out from the goalkeeper and Aleksander Kolarov prodded wide after swapping passes with Dzeko. Samir Nasri slid a ball through for Dzeko but he was twice denied by Williams.

George Maluleka also clipped a free-kick narrowly wide and only a fine sliding challenge from Vincent Kompany stopped Sameegh Doutie giving the South African side the lead travel trade show.

Dzeko also glanced a header narrowly over the bar from a Nasri free-kick just before the interval.

Pellegrini changed his entire team at the break, with Yaya Toure and James Milner among those brought on.

But the home side took the lead 10 minutes into the second period when a cross from Innocent Mdledle was met by a towering header from Niang that beat Costel Pantilimon.

James Milner went close to pulling City level but his effort was blocked by Boalefa Pule after the England midfielder was played in by Alex Nimely and Ivory Coast midfielder Yaya Toure also drove well over the bar baby carrier.

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August 05, 2013

Froome torpedoes rivals, Martin wins stage


Imperious Tour de France leader Chris Froome tightened his grip on the yellow jersey after finishing runner-up to world champion Tony Martin in the race's 11th stage time trial on Wednesday Property investment portal.

Omega-Pharma rider Martin had set the early pace for the windswept 33 km course from Avranches to Mont Saint Michel in 36min 29sec but had a nervous wait as Froome threatened to upset his hopes of victory.

"It was a long wait," said Martin, who started 65th from the 182 starters and finished with the third-fastest ever time for a time trial on the race.

Belgium's Tomas De Gendt, of Vacansoleil, was closest to challenge Martin before Froome but was 1min 01sec slower than the German at the finish line to end up third.

Martin, who had won the last nine time trials in which he has competed, started to get worried when Froome topped the times at both intermediate time checks.

"To be honest, I'd almost given up hope of the stage win. It was starting to look very disappointing when I saw Chris beat my times at the intermediate check," he said.

"I nearly started to cry. I couldn't believe it. I expected that Froome might get to within 30 seconds or something like that but not beating me at the intermediates.

"Now I'm really happy and maybe it's nicer to win this way."

Martin's win was all the more welcome as he came close to leaving the race after the crash-marred opening stage, which took swathes of skin off his back, legs lace and embroidery, arms and buttocks.

"Luckily some of my skin is back and I can sleep on my back again. I'm more-or-less recovered... for sure there are still some wounds that are open but we riders are used to this so it's no problem any more."

Froome missed what would have been his third stage win in the race, but there were other rewards for the Kenyan-born Briton.

"I'm very happy with the time I set. The objective today was to try and take the maximum time possible from my rivals," said Froome, who won Olympic time trial bronze in London last year.

He finished 2:03 ahead of principal rival Alberto Contador of Spain, and 2:00 ahead of his compatriot Alejandro Valverde, while Australia's Cadel Evans finished 2:30 off the pace.

Movistar leader Valverde remains second overall but saw his deficit of 1:25 balloon to 3:25, while Dutchman Bauke Mollema of Belkin moved up to third to sit 3:37 in arrears.

Contador, the race champion in 2007 and 2009, is fourth at 3:54 while 2011 champion Evans is 14th at 6:54 after finishing a disappointing 21st.

Asked if he could beat Froome, Valverde, who won the 2009 Tour of Spain but has never finished on the podium of the Tour de France, just shook his head and said: "Difficult... difficult."

Contador, a climbing specialist like Froome but who was less suited to the flat, mostly linear race course, said he has not given up hope.

"No one's lost this race yet and no one has won it. There's a lot of racing to be done," said the Spaniard.

The onus will now be on Team Sky's rivals to attack Froome during four tough stages in the Alps beginning Sunday, as they did last Sunday when aggressive racing on stage nine destabilised the British team and ended the podium hopes of Froome's teammate Richie Porte.

Asked how he expected his rivals to race next weekend, Froome said: "Like we saw last weekend, other teams are going to throw everything they've got at us MPLS VPN service.

"We're just going to try and have to deal with that the best we can with the team that we've got.

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July 11, 2013

Hammett won't rule out return for Nonu


Coach Mark Hammett says the door isn't completely closed on erratic All Black Ma'a Nonu returning to the Hurricanes next year, although the prospect seems a distant one.

The 11th-placed Hurricanes have begun planning for 2014 after slipping out of Super Rugby playoff contention with last weekend's 34-22 loss to the competition-leading Chiefs Managed Security.

Hammett has Saturday's home game against the Highlanders and next week's fixture away to the Crusaders to salvage some pride and go closer to securing his player roster for next year.

When it was suggested veteran centre Nonu could rejoin the franchise he left under controversial circumstances two years ago, Hammett said he hadn't considered the possibility.

"We've got a good bunch of midfielders and good young kids coming through," he said.

"(But) We're always looking at our squad moving forward. You never say never."

Nonu played 110 games for the Hurricanes from 2003 to 2011 but wasn't offered a contract beyond that after falling out with Hammett.

The 31-year-old played one disappointing season for the Blues last year before leaving under a cloud to join the Highlanders.

Another average campaign, which followed a short stint in Japanese club rugby, ended last weekend when he was sent off against the Crusaders.

It has created a perception that Nonu saves his best rugby for the All Blacks, for whom he has played 79 Tests.

Hammett says while it is a busy time of year for negotiating with players coming off contract, the bulk of his largely young squad will be retained.

He says he won't be impressed if Hurricanes players who aren't yet contracted beyond this year suddenly improve over the last two games in pursuit of a new deal.

"If that's the motivation, then potentially we've got the wrong character to start with," he said.

"If I start finally seeing an improvement in a player because he was coming off contract, that would be an alarm bell for me."

Hammett has made two starting changes for the Highlanders game, promoting wing Alapati Leiua and blindside flanker Faifili Levave from the reserve bench to replace Matt Proctor and Brad Shields respectively.

Samoan international Jack Lam comes onto the reserve bench while injury has kept hooker Dane Coles (calf) and flanker Ardie Savea (ankle) sidelined Enterprise Endpoint Backup.

Hurricanes: James Marshall, Alapati Leiua, Conrad Smith, Reynold Lee-Lo, Julian Savea, Beauden Barrett, TJ Perenara, Victor Vito, Karl Lowe, Faifili Levave, James Broadhurst, Jeremy Thrush, Ben May, Ash Dixon, Ben Franks. Reserves: Reggie Goodes, John Schwalger, Mark Reddish, Brad Shields, Jack Lam, Chris Smylie, Matt Proctor.

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July 02, 2013

Man due in court after Taupo stand-off


a man arrested after an armed dispute in Taupo late on Sunday will face court on Tuesday.

The 38-year-old will appear in Rotorua District Court on an assault charge related to an alleged family violence incident, and on a firearms charge headphone stand.

The Armed Offenders Squad arrived at the Rangitera Street home late on Sunday after a woman arrived at a police station claiming to have been assaulted gear motor.

The squad spent the night at the scene talking to the man, who is aged in his 30s, armed with a gun and believed to have mental health concerns playgroup.

He was coaxed out by negotiators and taken into custody without incident .

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June 24, 2013

Jury mulls rape and kidnap verdict

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A jury has retired to consider its verdict in the case of a Wairarapa man accused of raping and kidnapping a teenager.

Michael Lihou, 44, denies a total of eight counts that he raped, sexually assaulted, assaulted, kidnapped and threatened to kill the then 17-year-old in Carterton last year jeans embroidery, following a drinking and smoking cannabis session.

The woman said she had been employed by Lihou to write his memoirs, but the job didn't involve much paperwork and they spent a lot of time drinking and getting stoned.

Judge Warwick Gendall on Friday gave his instructions on how to treat the evidence presented during the five-day trial in the High Court at Wellington.

The case is unusual in that the jury has been informed Lihou has convictions for similar rape and kidnapping charges in 1988 and 1996.

The Crown says that there are similarities in the incidents, but Justice Gendall warned the jury the earlier convictions were only one part of the evidence.

"He has done some awful things before but he is entitled to be judged by you in a manner that does not involve prejudice or sympathy wine class."

Lihou's lawyer Noel Sainsbury has argued that the woman had consensual sex with Lihou following a night of "diesel and weed" and willingly went with him when they walked into the Wairarapa countryside.

He said she made up the rape and other accusations because she realised her father and boyfriend would be furious with her for spending the night with Lihou.

She knew Lihou had the previous convictions and that her story would be "lapped up" Asian college of knowledge management, Mr Sainsbury said.

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June 17, 2013

Assange hosts Ecuadorean foreign minister


Australian-born WikiLeaks founder Julian Assange has made a fleeting public appearance as he welcomed the Ecuadorean foreign minister to his refuge at the South American country's embassy in London.

Ricardo Patino said Assange was in "good spirits" despite the "limitations" of his accommodation.

The foreign minister is in Britain for a meeting with counterpart William Hague to try and find a solution to the impasse which has led to Assange spending a year in the embassy in a bid to avoid extradition to Sweden.

The foreign minister arrived at the embassy at 6.30pm (0330 AEST) and waved to about a hundred Assange supporters before heading inside the building thailand real estate.

Shortly afterwards, the pair opened a window in Assange's ground floor residence and greeted supporters before returning inside for talks, which lasted around an hour.

"I have just finished meeting with Julian Assange who is in good spirits despite the limitations of his accommodation," said Patino.

"I was able to say face to face to him, for the first time, that the government of Ecuador remains firmly committed to protecting his human rights and that we continue to seek cast iron assurances to avoid any onward extradition to a third state."

Assange and WikiLeaks insist that Britain's real aim in seeking to deport him to Sweden, where prosecutors want to quiz him over sex claims, is to send him to the United States.

"During the meeting we were able to speak about the increasing threats against the freedom of people to communicate and to know the truth, threats which come from certain states that have put all of humanity under suspicion," added Patino.

Assange said Sunday's meeting was "very good" and that Patino had "set out how he and the Ecuadorean government are actively seeking a solution to my present situation.

"I remain immensely grateful to the support Ricardo, President (Rafael) Correa and the people of Ecuador have shown me over the last year," he added.

Hague and Patino are searching for a diplomatic solution to the stalemate, which was triggered when Assange turned up at the embassy demanding asylum on June 19 last year.

Earlier, Ecuadorean Deputy Foreign Minister Marco Albuja said in a phone interview that bilateral "ties really reached a critical point when (last August) there was an inappropriate threat to invade Ecuadorean territory, violating the diplomatic legation, seeking Mr Assange's capture Hong Kong loan important notice.

"That was the key moment at which relations were in danger of being broken off," Albuja said.

"Now there is no real effect on (bilateral) relations, and we have in London, as well as in Quito, a fluid dialogue. Ties are good," Albuja said.

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March 27, 2013

UK may freeze for another month

The big freeze gripping the UK could last until almost the end of April, weather forecasters predict.

Temperatures are unlikely to recover to normal averages for the time of year until the latter part of next month, the Met Office suggested through its 30-day forecast backup dvd.

Sub-zero temperatures look set to bring misery to thousands of people for the rest of the week and throughout Easter weekend as the dangerous wintry weather shows no immediate signs of abating.

Thousands of people in western Scotland face a sixth day without power on Wednesday after electricity pylons were damaged last week, and many transport routes across the UK remain impassable because of deep snow drifts.

Farmers have been left counting the cost of the blizzard conditions, with many having to rescue stranded livestock at the height of the lambing season.

An RAF Chinook helicopter was called in yesterday to help as part of an emergency operation in Northern Ireland as farms and families were cut off by huge snow drifts Claire Hsu.

The severe weather has also been blamed for the deaths of a number of birds, including puffins, razorbills and guillemots, which have washed up on Britain's beaches.

The Met Office has issued a cold weather alert for much of England, with a 100 per cent probability of severe cold weather and icy conditions until Friday.

Its outlook for Sunday to April 9 predicts cold, dry weather, with a few light snow flurries and widespread frost and icy patches overnight.

And the Met Office predicts temperatures are unlikely to recover to nearer normal values until the latter part of April unlock dvd region.

While there are no forecast for more big snow falls, temperatures as low as minus 6C are predicted overnight.

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March 26, 2013

Should canned tuna be banned?

The Mercury Policy Project of Montpelier, a non-profit group trying to reduce mercury in the environment, tested 59 samples of tuna cans and pouches (Thinkstock)
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A group of consumer groups are lobbying the US government to remove canned tuna from school canteens because they're concerned about mercury levels. Fish can become contaminated with mercury when industrial pollution enters a waterway and too much mercury can cause problems with brain development. The Mercury Policy Project of Montpelier, a non-profit group trying to reduce mercury in the environment, tested 59 samples of tuna cans and pouches and found mercury levels varied within each sample. Overall the mercury levels were similar to the US government's findings, however they told USA Today that they were concerned that the methylmercury content ranged from 0.02 to 0.64 parts per million in light tuna and 0.19 and 1.27 parts per million in albacore tuna. "On any given day in a given school, children eating the same meal could get mercury doses that vary by tenfold, just because of the variability of the chunk of meat in the packet," said Edward Groth, author of the report online marketing.

However Dr Maxine Bonham, a senior lecturer in nutrition and dietetics at Monash University, told MSN NZ the health benefits of eating fish outweigh the mercury risks. "The mercury content of all processed or canned fish is regulated and there are set limits that it should be kept within and those limits have been proven as safe," she said. "In the study, there has been no long-term evidence that consumption … would have any adverse outcomes on a child's development." Food Standards New Zealand recommend children eat two to three 75gm serves of fish per week or just one serve of flake, marlin, sea perch and swordfish, which have a higher mercury risk. "The World Health Organisation have recently come out and said the benefits of eating fish wine tasting, in terms of cognitive development, outweigh any adverse affect that mercury would have in the system,"

Dr Bonham said. "The emphasis is on increasing fish consumption, rather than worrying about the content of mercury. There are requirements around certain fish that are good to avoid during pregnancy and in a vulnerable group like young children but the overall evidence leans beneficially towards the protective and beneficial effects of the fats in fish." Dr Bonham said you would need an "awful lot" of mercury to impair cognition. "The main cases that have shown mercury poisoning have been industrial pollution when huge amounts have gotten into the environment and contaminated people through eating," she said spa hong kong.

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January 18, 2013

成功必備的四個技能

心理導讀:俞敏洪闡述了成功四大要素對一個人成就事業的重要性,即得到別人信任的能力、與人平??等溝通的能力、學習的能力以及判斷力。積極面對人生的任何境遇,挑戰自我,這正是一代企業家拼搏的真實寫照。


"在人類社會中,往往偉大的人都不是靠身體強壯取勝,而是他們的精神足夠強大。”這是新東方教育科技集團董事長兼總裁俞敏洪創業多年來的感悟jobs

創業起步時,在北京中關村二小一個10平方米、漏風漏雨的違章建築裡,除了一張桌子、一把椅子以及冬天還未刷完小廣告就結冰的膠水桶,俞敏洪什麼也沒有。

而20多年後發表此番感悟時,俞敏洪是站在中國人民大學舉辦的大學生就業創業大講堂上,此刻的他,代表著新一代的中國企業家。

從絕望中尋找希望、忍受孤獨、失敗與屈辱,把小事業做成大事業……回顧創業直至今日,俞敏洪表示:"自從人類社會建立以來就從未消除過不公平。面對不公平,不同的人生表現出積極、消極兩種不同態度。消極的態度有百害而無一利。正如人的出身,根本無從選擇。唯一能夠做的,就是通過自己的努力來改變命運office interior design。”

俞敏洪闡述了成功四大要素對一個人成就事業的重要性,即得到別人信任的能力、與人平??等溝通的能力、學習的能力以及判斷力。積極面對人生的任何境遇,挑戰自我,這正是一代企業家拼搏的真實寫照。

一、被人相信的能力

一個成功企業家的背後有多少故事,恐怕只有當事人自己才能說清。一個成功企業家需要具備的優良品質,則是人盡皆知的公開秘密。俞敏洪認為,成功最重要的能力之一,是被人相信的能力。

多年以前,當俞敏洪身無長物之時,提出了做培訓行業這個夢想,得到了一群志同道合的同學支持。於是,新東方有了最初的雛形。多年以來,從一個默默無聞的培訓班,發展到今天的上市公司,俞敏洪十分感激這些信任他並跟他一直走下去的員工。 "他們說,反正跟你回去,有飯吃,我不會餓著,你有粥喝,我也有的喝。”

但回顧深層次的原因,則是企業家具備的"被人相信”的能力。俞敏洪說,"被人信任,關鍵是在對你自己的人品、人格的信任上,別人能夠信任你多少。比如,一旦有事情(需要幫助)的時候他能想到的就是你。”

俞敏洪舉例說明,當周圍的朋友離開這裡,能不能把身家性命託付於你?兩個人一起創業,對方是否相信你絕對不會騙他,賺了錢不會一個人獨吞?遇到危險和難處的時候,你是否會沖在前面?俞敏洪認為,這些都是人之大信。包括團隊精神、勇敢、善良、敢於擔當……取信於人才能夠拉班子帶隊伍。

這種能力比一個人會投機取巧、小聰明或高分數要強不知多少倍,所以一定要先把自己變成一個能讓別人相信的人。
二、溝通的能力

毫無疑問,俞敏洪是一個會"講故事”的人,這一點無論是在講台上,還是在《贏在中國》的點評台上,俞敏洪的善言都讓人印象深刻。

講到溝通的時候中國人習慣會想到這個人會拍馬屁、會談判等等,但俞敏洪認為,這只是一部分。一個會交流溝通的人,你會發現他在語言上沒有太多的話語,有的人幾句話,卻能讓人很舒服。這就是人與人之間的互相尊重、尊嚴,遇到了尊重你的人,你願意與他繼續做事情。

明白這個道理的背後是創業時無數次的挫折,在俞敏洪剛起步做新東方初期的時候,租了北大的一個教室,有個老大爺在看教室,但因為俞敏洪沒有送禮,這位看門大爺把所有的同學在門外關了一個多小時,直到俞敏洪送了一條煙才作罷。俞敏洪說,"這和我們接觸的很多領導一樣的感覺,他不說要什麼,但就不給你批准辦事,到最後你終於發現他要的不是崇高,而是金錢。”

這些慘痛的教訓讓俞敏洪感受深刻,他深深體會到,一個互相不尊重的社會,造成了冷漠的社會。而在這樣的社會中尊重他人,尤其是尊重自己的員工,就格外能夠被人認可。

俞敏洪說:"新東方現在有三萬員工了,應該沒有一個員工回憶起來我侮辱過他們,但是不小心侮辱了,我也會有過道歉。當成平等的人,從人格上產生尊嚴,從行為上表示尊重的時候,你的成功就多了一半,因為你周圍的人都不會排斥你,覺得與你在一起很安全、很舒適。”

三、學習能力

"讀萬卷書,行萬里路,閱人無數,有人指路。”俞敏洪學習能力和判斷能力簡單地用這四句短語代替。

在大學期間,每天精讀大量書籍。俞敏洪這個習慣,一直保持到現在。 "我前天統計了一下2011年一共讀了54本書,我的原規劃是80本,但是太忙了,沒有辦法。”俞敏洪認為讀書不僅能保持思考,更重要的是保持學習和進步。

四、判斷能力

判斷能力的獲取則要靠後天的歷練。經歷比其他人更多,就知道不該碰的事情不碰,該碰的不放過。高瞻遠矚、有遠大胸懷。

俞敏洪認為,一個人如果有了別人信任的能力、與人平??等溝通的能力、學習的能力以及判斷力。再加上勤奮刻苦就一定能夠成功。

"我的人生一定為大事而來,可能這件大事到80歲的時候回頭看才能明了。人是需要去努力,去悟的,人這輩子最重要的結局在什麼地方誰也不知道,我們要做的是一路前行,不斷地領悟。”

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January 05, 2013

2012那幅人生水墨

人生最熟悉的是自己,最陌生的也是自己。百轉千迴,一路風塵,盤點人生,在不斷地盤點完善裡,使後半生"眾裡覓她千百度,驀然回首,那人卻在燈火闌珊處”。

人生如畫,生活本身是一幅畫,但在涉世未深時,我們都是閱讀觀畫的讀者,而經過了風雨,辯別了事物,我們又變成書中的主角,在各自演譯著精彩。
【一月:展紙●研磨】
2012翌年之初,茫然中已然開始,忙碌總能使人忘記許多,就像那展開的畫卷,縱然胸有成竹,也難免擔心一筆落敗,在忐忑中雙手不停的忙著研磨……
忙碌之後,人總會有突然的失落,有些許不得不面對,總得點下那第一筆,總得面對這生活,難得一種實實在在體會到的生活,開始吧。已比未展紙之前的空中樓閣安然許多,巧然構思依舊,望著匆匆來往的人影,我提筆,飽蘸濃墨……
【二月:屏息●落筆】
第一筆若然不是濃墨重彩的一筆,也奠定了方向,這是一種責任。該擔的我不逃避,誰又能保證最精彩的一筆是自己最佳狀態的最靚麗一筆。從父母促膝的暢談中,縱然墨色不均,聽的出字句的份量。從周圍的目光中得到一絲欣喜,這一筆不太差。
我不苛刻追求完美,就如我不在畫之前鑑賞這白紙一般,夠抒胸懷即可。什麼不分三六九等,追求是無止境的,該來的總是如此匆匆,夢一世別離,聞擦肩之香,恍然人海中,我已堅定的踏下那一步,步畫捲而來… …
【三月:勾勒●成型】
執於一念,將受困於一念;一念放下,會自在於心間。人生不能猶豫,作畫也如此,一筆落下,便要刷刷幾筆,定出架構,一筆濃淡紅塵浮現,清香縈繞身畔。開始起初,旁人雖驚訝,卻未能猜出那紙風雲,亦不知後事如何,只悄悄靜待……
人生無須太多的準備,不要瞻前顧後,不要舉棋不定,不要裹足不前,有時候義無反顧,你往往會得到更多。喊好的不必掛念,作祟的也不放心上。青墨染指,只待靜思,遙想美夢,只輕輕細語彷彿帶出墨色深處的佳景,我望向遠方,留戀於某處,期待回眸……
【四月:滴落●入心】
也許是不經意的一瞥,也許是恍然的一語,我心跳加劇,懵懂中繼續。白紙依舊,細嗅墨青紙香,不知不覺中已進行下一步的染彩。一滴墨在揮手間,滴落紙間,不說成敗,我在細細構想如何將其融入這畫。
也許我也曾千百計劃,也許我也曾朝思暮想,只在心間徘徊,時彈指時苦笑,若瘋癲若清醒,回想以往種種,原來早已滴落心中,早已悄悄根深蒂固,只等待出手的剎那,沿一路痕跡輕輕流淌。
【五月:描劃●匆匆】
總有再次繁忙的時刻,畫之初是心忙,計劃、構想如雨後春筍挺出,行至此,躍然間眼快手忙。承開筆之力,借構思鋪筆。熟練談不上,只是少了些許青澀。杯中清茶,回了兩遍,少了點苦澀,清香已滿溢,縱然人此時有些感到開始的時候喝的那些不值,但不經歷何談人生,為之苦盡甘總會來。
絲絲輕風拂面,感覺夢來臨之前的清香,容納海闊天空的胸懷,世事洞察的聰慧,無所謂得與失,體會,在匆忙中體會。墨色如水,靜待硯台是美,揮灑潑墨,縱橫紙間也翻騰一種豪情。
【六月:酌一●細描】
繼續著匆忙的勾勒,也不忘細點那一處處煙波。總有新的忙碌起點,人生就如海浪,一浪起一浪頂,前仆後繼。人生一旦開始,手邊的事情總是忙不完,細描之際不忘閒掐兩句,豁朗心情。
人生難得幾個欣賞之人,不論知己與否,酒後茶餘,盡情醉。有人說酒醉,有人說茶醉,不過醉在人心。也許醒來已忘昨日盡興之事,然時光已匆匆而去……
【七月:定格●望形】
一番新的氣象,彷彿人換了新環境一樣,大體定型,一派大干一番的氣象。望去,忙碌之後一點欣慰。忘了前番之忙碌,擎杯迎風,一杯而下。感覺又近了一步,心懷歡喜,陰錯陽差總算有了下一步的機會,千篇一路的方式自成各自的特色,各自的人生。
開始,筆放桌前,添水,再研磨。我在等,等那青芽萌放之際,陽光輕掩的時候……
【八月:提筆●畫神】
一番醞釀,一筆劃出心中所想,八月的雷雨震撼著大地,冥冥之中帶著天意,落筆之間已不能自已。沉浸在腦海中的音容笑貌,一筆筆清晰,一點點沉澱。
人有時候總是很驚奇自己的際遇,所以才有了山重水復疑無路,柳暗花明又一村的佳句流傳。就如人這一生之中期待的那個夢想一樣,不管你承不承認,心中多少有些堅持,就在做一些事情的時候,也會感覺像是本能的排斥與吸引。總是堅持著自己心中的美好,若讓具體來說,卻又說不清楚……
【九月:細瞻●凝望】
從墨色深處走出的欣喜,望著作畫的又一高峰,彷彿忘了最初的構想,一旦一筆帶出,帶著驚喜又開始了??新一輪的細描,在細描之前,容我品半盞清茶,先端詳一番。
在時光慢慢的徘徊中,似乎人人都有了一點麻木,都有了一點後悔,只不過有些人的後悔寫在明天,有些人的不甘寫在心中,有些人的信念還攥在手中!現實與夢想總有些許差距,縱然有人說夢想實現,也不過是夢想的影子,即便如此,讓那些說自己達到夢想的人,再照著夢想來一遍,也畫不出當時的一顰一語,不過欣喜的是,總是有了抓在手中的感覺。
【十月:深化●點睛】
一幅畫,總有點睛之筆,一個人總有一段刻骨銘心的溫暖。我提筆做這點睛一舉,不說心急所致,倒是時光不等人,畫久,耽擱了總成敗筆,順其自然到此處,自該是有此一出。
人生起起伏伏,總是淡然走過,信不信就在一念之間。平淡之中的一絲愜意,就是那點睛之筆,源遠流長的清香。移目紙上,墨色深處,彷彿想起了作畫之初,那藏在心底的珍惜,珍惜的不敢落筆,只在研磨……
【十一月:渲染●滄桑】
一分耕耘,一分收穫。不管你信不信,都說渲染是人生的錦上添花,不過確切的說更是檢驗前期的滿紙飛墨,渲染的不好,不一定怪現在,也許是前期的努力不夠,看似輕描淡寫的渲染,卻讓人濕落黑髮。檢查,前期的已無法修改,現在只能彌補。好不好從別人口中一個味,自己心中知道份量。
放不下這一紙欣喜,捨不得那品茶安然其中的樂趣,渲染吧,這一年何嘗不是如此……
【十二月:畫未●待續】
因一份執著動筆,眼望,心跳,手動,舖一幅畫卷,紙雖未乾,心底一片釋然。人生難得順其自然,泡一壺茶自得其樂,喝一杯酒對月當歌。人生,一醉方休又如何,活的糊塗,不如醉的清醒。
簡單的開心,無關大小,期待又恰如其分的追尋;愜意的人生,無關成敗,擁抱也不必刻意的追求。是禍躲不過,是緣走不了,一起放聲大笑,一起肆意狂哭,沒多少青春能讓人肆意揮霍,靜靜的期待吧……
年末尾聲,享受最後的片刻靜謐。書卷、清茶、音樂,偶爾傳來新年的氣息。擱筆至此,畫未;亦如這人生,未完待續……

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December 19, 2012

Old love old habits

Maybe you have to leave a person for a long time advertising premium, you don't love him, but one day, suddenly you found, you still keep his habits.

He used to before the turn off the audio equipment, to turn the volume down, that can extend the audio equipment life. Years later, you with another man corporate premium. One day, are you in a hurry to go out, in a hurry, you still the first tune the volume, to bring home audio equipment off. Has become your habits. Somewhere in time, he would do it.

He used every time when away from home, all leave a light on. You said he wasted power. And he said, this is his life habits, and will not waste a lot of power. Breaking up over the years, solitary, before each home, also used to leave a light on. Then, with a man together, said the man, who leave home, leave a bit waste. You straighten the vaporous told him: " so as not to waste a lot of powe business giftr. "

All of a sudden, you think, this is not your childhood habits, but you from the former men's habits. You had no dealings with him, you stole his habit, take forcible possession of. If one day, he is in your house, see before you go out, always like a lamp, he will feel proud?

Old lover is already blurred, their old habits, but stayed, those who are accustomed to, perhaps only to open cans, the method of brushing teeth and tone. Imperceptibly, we have become, these habits, may be left to another person executive gift.

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November 14, 2012

開始屬於自己的生活

棄之可惜那些年的情感,

 

流沙綠野裏是否看得清自己,

 

是舍是棄還是放不下?

 

在梧桐雨滴裏是否能找到屬於自己的那一顆眼淚,

 

是否要真正的用胸懷四海的情節去看待所有的一切?

 

----------題記

 

那些年,我們都還小。小欣18歲,喜歡寫詩,喜歡看書,喜歡宅著發呆,喜歡沒心沒肺的婚宴紅酒笑,沒心沒肺的做事,因為害怕自己受傷。木木17歲半,喜歡玩世不恭,喜歡偶爾異想天開。

 

相識

 

臘月,小欣生日。她告別了那些逃課,擅自離開教室,厭惡所有除了班主任以外的老師。來到這所女子學校,沒有了那些哥們兒,她的性格需要改變,或許能夠不讓她再這麼的男孩子氣,每天起床就是一幫女人堆。生日,是一個多麼好的日子,至少可以跟哥們兒他們一起聚起red wine來瘋狂了。那夜的確很瘋。哥們兒蚊子用她手機打了一個木木的號碼。

 

往後的日子,木木經常跟小欣打電話。小欣從不在意到在意這個男生。可是他連姓名都欺騙,但是她卻沒有說什麼。小欣因為無聊,想要走進這場戀情。他們進一步的了解,交談,她改不了她的天談闊論,依舊這麼的談笑風聲。

 

相戀

 

期末考後的夜晚都是姐妹們通宵達旦的快樂時光。小欣對遊戲,對通宵網吧沒興趣。靜靜的,一個人,看著天空,走在屬於一個人的街道裏,想著一些自己都不知道的事,看著自己熟悉而又陌生的風景。不知不覺的走到了木木的店門口,看了一下四周,她還是進去了。木木驚喜,她為什麼會來店裏?"呵呵,今天都去通宵了,無聊,來坐坐。"木木沒有說話,給小欣上了一杯喜歡的咖啡,兩個人開始談天說地。死性不改,王小欣,一說忘了自己是誰,似乎這個世界只有她自己。木木被她的天真,被她的經曆,被她的表情深深吸引了。湊上去,輕輕的一吻,她終於停止了她的高談闊論。這是愛嗎?還是這就是戀愛的感覺?在王小欣眼裏,這可以心跳到窒息。

 

就這樣,她陪著木木關門下班。兩個人還是沒說話,因為她傻了,傻呆了,不知道說什麼。兩個人深夜裏散步在燈火闌珊處,燈光下,她似乎變得更可愛。木木開始又忍不住親吻她,她開始回神了,這就是戀愛的感覺,感覺。可是王小欣還是賤賤的想,就玩一下,玩一下,不要讓自己投入,不要傷了自己。可是最後,她還是愛了。

 

在一起的日子或許幸福或許也短暫。在一起時間長了也難免有摩擦。用小欣的說法,自己是一個有想法,有經曆,有痛楚的,有計劃的人。她看不得木木的玩世不恭,她總以為自己可以改變眼前這個男生。自己的初戀,她想:我要改變他,直到所有的人都可以接受他,我們2015年可以結婚。

 

離別

 

在一起的時間不長不短,一年。爭吵的過程是讓人痛楚的,可離別更讓一個人傷感。

 

木木:"我要去當兵了,去三年。王小欣依然沒心沒肺:"哦,那就去吧,決定了就行

 

木木:"難道你就不能留我?王小欣:"我沒有權利幹涉你的選擇,做自己喜歡做的事

 

木木:"那你會等我?王小欣:看情況,看心情"

 

是因為不會把握,還是不敢愛,還是考慮太多。王小欣永遠都那鳥樣,還是總會肆意別人給的愛。在乎或者不在乎,自己是否明白?什麼時候才能改掉那些沒心沒肺的人生態度。

 

木木還是想把握,短信,電話求著王小欣去送他。可王小欣腦袋進漿糊了,看不清眼前這個人,看不懂現在的情形。按耐不住的木木再次打電話:欣,明天我就要走了,來送我吧,算我求你了。"”走就走咯,我沒時間送,祝你一路順風"沒心沒肺王小欣的回答。我要去三年的,你真就不來送我"木木傻得可以。你去當兵,又不是***"更沒心沒肺的話還是從王小欣嘴裏出來了。

 

或許木木該放手了,是王小欣害怕面對離別的場面,還是真覺得是一種解脫。木木走的當時,買了一束玫瑰在車站等,望穿秋水,不見小欣身影,那一刻他只能把花扔進了垃圾桶。

 

一個月後,是王小欣生日,一個沒有木木的祝福的生日。靜靜的,一個人看著外面的天空,還是那麼喜歡看窗外的風景,特是車窗外的。一路的風景,來不及細細的觀賞就已經過去了。

 

木木不會這麼想,在部隊的生活雖然艱苦,但是有時間就會給小欣來電話。小欣開始改變自己的態度,友好而表現得在乎。把他寄來的相片珍藏起來。整個女子學校知道她有一名多麼癡情的追求著,她還是有點不屑。

 

人總會變的,不斷的成長的小欣。木木也被部隊生活全新洗禮,洗禮過後的他,還能跟小欣有任何一點交集嗎?在小欣眼裏沒有了。

 

開始不斷的兩個人爭吵,每次的爭吵小欣覺得是一種解脫,分開吧,分開是一種自我的釋然和解脫。

 

二年多以後,小欣終於畢業了。走進大城市,做自己的白領,做自己的工作狂,做自己所謂為理想奮鬥的人。半年後,小欣父親病重,木木管部隊戰友借了二千塊寄給小欣。她並沒有因此感到怎麼樣。送走父親的那一刻她更是變了另外一個人。把長發剪了,開始自己更瘋狂的一面,工作比任何人任何事都要重要,是用工作來麻痹自己,還是用工作來讓自己更魔鬼。徹底的,不能在一起了吧。

 

再重逢

 

那一年的冬天,木木要回來了。叫小欣去接。其實這會兒的小欣沒有這麼可惡,也沒有了那種霸氣。更多的是坦然,和淡淡的微笑。是那些沒有了爸爸的生活,讓她承擔的太多太多,那些艱難的洗禮,讓她成長了,成熟了。坦然去面對所有人和事,坦然自己所有的不快。

 

跟木木一個好哥們兒一起去的車站,接到木木的時候,她也看出來了,他身上沒有了以往的於世不恭,更多的是成熟,穩重。唯有不變的是他那骨子裏流露出來的傻勁兒。就像剛認識的朋友,小欣淡淡的給了木木一個微笑。木木還是那樣,見到久而不見的女孩兒,都會說句,喲又漂亮了哦。沒有像久而不見的戀人,牽手或者擁抱,都沒有,太平常不過了的招呼。然後並排走到吃飯的地方,沒有很多話語。或許這就是兩個世界所成就的人吧。

 

小欣在這裏卻看不清了自己。這感情,算三年了吧,放下?舍棄?繼續?棄之可惜,又不得不棄。第一次為這段情留下一些眼淚。

 

其實更多的,想著那些年的痛,苦,委屈,他依然像個過路人,過去的人,走過了自己的世界而已,他並沒有陪著小欣走過。只想放棄,大膽的又再痛一次。

 

木木離開的時候,不是沒愛過,也愛過別人,但也傷過,痛過,哭過,笑過。被人背叛的滋味不好受,人生總會遇到許多的磕磕絆絆,是否能真正的釋然。木木卻總也放不開,總想小欣回到自己的身邊。是因為還愛,還是因為舍不下那些年的感情?

 

毅然決然的選擇離開是對是錯?

 

一年後,在縣城相見,沒有想過再在一起。兩個人平淡的吃了飯,到曾經一起爬過的山上去看風景,一切都跟以前不一樣,心呢,是否也不一樣?

 

緣分天注定,雖然聽起來宿命,我自己的看法只有付出了,該是你的就是你的,感情不強求。無論是美好還是傷心的過往,都是我們寶貴的回憶。

 

小欣不再是那個跟他許下承諾2015年我們結婚吧那個單純的女子了。現在事業上是拼命十三妹,生活上談笑風聲裏多了那些淡淡的心傷。

 

王小欣要結婚了

 

終究,小欣還是找到了屬於自己的幸福。那些日子,她沒有想過木木他有沒有過來。終於,要結婚了。木木也在她的世界裏消失很久很久了吧,不過現在不是2015年,只是2012年。王小欣要結婚了,新郎不是他。

 

那夜,木木回來,跟哥們兒喝了一夜的酒,訴說了一夜的心傷,談了一夜的王小欣。哥們兒跟王小欣說,他還在乎她,放不下她。她心裏很複雜,這個曾經愛過的男人,想要怎麼樣,折磨自己?

 

想要QQ他,想要給她一些心裏的安慰,想要告訴他,把曾經的過往釋然,好好開始新的生活。在嗎"王小欣還是那麼的淡定。木木:什麼事",很簡單,很幹練,再也不是過往的木木。王小欣這些年的職場卻習慣了那些玩笑:沒事,就是想你了,想跟你聊聊。"木木已經不再相信她的玩笑:是嗎,你也會想我的",王小欣能感覺到談話間的不友好,那不應該是他們之間的談話。你對我不友好?"這是王小欣最沒耐心的說法。誰也沒想到,包括王小欣,木木會那麼說:對,因為我恨你!",王小欣一向話多,卻擠不出一個字。原來不是在乎,也不是愛,而恨。

 

一切就這麼結束吧,開始屬於自己的生活。

 

各自回到自己的世界,過凡夫俗子的生活,吃凡夫俗子的飯,穿凡夫俗子的衣,掙凡夫俗子的鋼板...............

 

淩晨三點,王小欣又開始了那望窗觀景的習慣.

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October 04, 2012

只希望找回自己的童年,無憂無慮地成長

據武漢晚報報導,一所小學有個一年級學生在最近的期末考試中得了99.5分,給父母留下字條:"爸爸媽媽,這次沒考好,請原諒。”筆者不敢斷定,這孩子是特別懂事,自覺反省,請父母寬恕?還是格外乖巧,認錯在先,省得爸媽生氣?抑或害怕責罰,無奈違心檢討?只是覺得hong kong company register,現在的孩子越來越不像孩子,他們的言行常常出乎我們的意料,他們的內心彷彿起了迷霧,叫我們看不清也猜不透。

就在前不久,中國音樂學院附中8名學生,因期末考試不及格被校方勸退。結果其中一女生服了安眠藥,另有4人突然失踪。再早些時候,河南洛陽一個15歲的初一女孩,因為和同學打架要受處罰,班級集體公決讓她回家思過一周,結果她再也沒有回來。離家出走、突然失踪、自殘自殺,類似的事件和悲劇時有所聞。我們的孩子究竟怎麼了?為什麼變得如此驚恐、如此自卑、如此脆弱、如此叛逆?

要簡單地尋找答案恐怕有點難,個中的原因很複雜。但是,有一個見怪不怪的現象應該引起我們的注意:許多孩子已經迷失了童年,失去了自然成長的和諧環境。他們沒有童趣。他們遺忘童真,沒了爛漫天真。他們丟失童心,不敢好奇,不能質疑,不會異想天開,做什麼都要按照家長、老師規定好的路線走,以至於考了99.5分還要"請求原諒”。這樣的童年還有什麼快樂可言?這樣匆匆催熟長大的孩子,偶經風雨,突遇挫折,就??難免心理失控,行為失常,悲劇也容易在瞬間發生。

其實,孩子的成長是一個慢慢成熟的過程,就像一棵幼苗,需要陽光、空氣和水分;也需要栽培、施肥和除害。急功近利的拔苗助長,只有百害而無一利。人的認知常常是錯誤嘗試的積累,對於孩子尤其是這樣,不少發達國家的中小學知識教學,並不主張給學生標準答案,有時甚至還會用一些錯誤答案讓學生自己去辨別、論證。所以我們不必害怕孩子犯錯誤,與其只給孩子提供標準答案,不如讓孩子在不斷的錯誤嘗試中找到最好的Domestic Helper答案。事實證明,日後能成大器的人並不是總考滿分的乖孩子。

懂得這些道理不難,難的是對現實利弊的取捨。現在的家長很糾結,這個考了99.5分的孩子的父母說:"不給孩子壓力吧,怕他輸在起跑線上;給壓力吧,就不能給他快樂的童年。”如今的老師也很無奈:不抓升學率吧,領導不高興,家長也不滿意;抓升學率吧,學生太可憐,自己也太辛苦。然而,我們為什麼不聽聽孩子們的心聲呢? "父母用無微不至的愛讓我的生命了無生趣。”在中美專家聯合調查的問卷上,有三分之一的中國學生回答,因學校和家長的雙重壓力存在心理問題,從小學到中學越來越找不到學習的cheap bookcase樂趣。

理解孩子吧,孩子們知道父母、老師是為他們好,但他們只希望找回自己的童年,無憂無慮地成長。

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September 28, 2012

課間十分鐘-“文明其精神,野蠻其體魄”

充分利用好課間十分鐘,非常重要。我對此進行了認真思考。我認為對班主任老師來說,課間的教育價值就在於引導學生文明有序休息,注重安全,使學生身體健康,精神放鬆愉快。在活動中培養學生團結協作、互助互愛、講誠信、懂規則、行禮儀等意識,增進學生間的友誼。

課間時間雖然很短,但是實際上,充分利用好這10分鐘非常重要,它是對孩子心理和生理的一種寶貴的彌補,它是防止和緩解身體和大腦疲勞的有效方法,堅持積極、文明的課間運動,可以日積月累起到健身強體的作用。同時,積極有效地利用好課間休息更是孩子快樂本性的一種回歸。跟同學們一起在操場上跳繩、踢毽子、打球、做遊戲,在大聲喊著童謠中一起嬉笑玩耍,讓孩子們放鬆了心情,釋放了壓力,因此,孩子們應該利用好課間活動,通過開展積極、有意義的各項運動,來實現課間休息所帶來的一系列積極作用。同時,我們必須要意識到,要達到課間休息這種良好的"健康療效”,所進行的活動首先就必須是健康的,友好的,友善的,而絕不是瘋狂地互相追打或者其他的"惡性”遊戲。

開展課間活動,班主任老師的教育、組織非常重要。很多學生並不會利用課間10分鐘的休息時間,覺得一下課沒事幹,他們要么在教室閒待著,和其他同學聊聊天,要不就在班級、樓道裡追跑打鬧,要不就坐在自己的座位上悶頭看書,整個班集體顯得很分散、不團結,沒有真正利用好這段休息放鬆的時間。班主任老師必須及時教育、組織學生開展有益、有趣、有序的課間活動。

課間時間,班主任老師首先要教育學生,下課後及時整理好上節課的學習用品,並準備好下節課的學習用品;迅速做好生活上的事情,如上衛生間等;然後到活動場所開展活動,不能在教室中活動。學生活動的花樣應該多種多樣,每當下課鈴一響,就讓同學們跑到空地、操場上去活動。學生都被班主任老師組織到一起,統一活動,通過各式各樣的遊戲,不僅讓同學們彼此之間增進了友誼、在課間休息時得到很好的放鬆,還可以避免追跑打鬧可能帶來的危險。同時,在遊戲中班主任老師教育引導學生養成謙讓、合作、團結、互助的文明行為習慣,相信經過班主任老師的肯定與鼓勵,追逐打鬧、說髒話的會消失,同學們更加自信、自尊和上進。課間一定成為文明、向上、潔淨、活潑的歡樂海洋,同學們彬彬有禮、活潑有序的行為會成為校園中的一道風景線。

學生課間活動開展初期,班主任老師的主要任務是各項活動的指導和組織。學生各項活動正常有規律開展後,班主任老師的主要任務就是巡迴參與各項活動,教育培養學生的禮儀、合作、謙讓等品質和習慣,並對問題學生進行重點教育。對教室、走廊、空地、操場等場所進行觀察,及時引導處理學生的課間行為。特別是學校作為培養人的場所,教育學生形成良好的行為習慣,杜絕人身傷害事故應當高度重視。特別是防護措施不甚得力的教學樓,可能形成傷害事故,有些學生可能在樓梯奔跑、追逐、擁擠。還有,學生在開展各項活動中,也要指導教育學生遵守各項安全注意事項,嚴防活動安全事故的發生。

但是,班主任老師也要教育學生避免較長時間的劇烈的活動,更不能貪玩超出課間時間,出現大汗淋漓、氣喘吁籲來上課或者耽誤上課的情況,這樣就本末倒置了。

曾經一位有思想有見地的大師曾為我們教育學生提出過一個樸素的目標——"文明其精神,野蠻其體魄”,在課間,我們班主任老師所做的,也就是以上兩點。讓學生的身體強健,讓學生文明休息,養成良好的習慣和思想,做到精神上的文明。這正是對班主任老師課間教育價值的最精闢的概括。

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September 20, 2012

要給學生“一杯水”,教師首先要有“流水”

音樂欣賞教學是音樂教育的重要組成部分,學生在高中階段恢復音樂欣賞課,對提高學生的音樂素質具有重大的現實意義和長遠的影響。它為青少年智力的lifestyle全面發展,心靈的淨化,人格的完善,思想素質和文化素質的普遍提​​高,開闢出一片新的天地。那麼,怎樣才能上好高中音樂欣賞課呢?我的體會如下:
一、不斷提高教師的音樂素養。
俗話說的好,要給學生"一杯水”,教師首先要有"流水”。作為一名音樂教師,不一定是音樂方面特殊人才,但是,必須全面掌握專業知識,有熟練的技能技巧。只有這樣,才能靈活駕馭課堂,開展其它音樂課外活動。音樂教師除對本專業的歌唱、演奏、舞蹈、指揮等技能,還有作曲知識、中外音樂史及重要音樂作品、作家等方面的音樂理論必須掌握外,對文學、歷史、美學、地理、哲學、教育學、心理學、社會學等諸方面的邊緣學科知識也要有所了解,音樂教師只有博學多才,教學時才能運用自如,才能改變那種迂腐陳舊、形式呆滯的課堂教學模式,喚起學生對音樂學習的興趣,啟迪學生的智慧,陶冶學生的高尚情操。因此,我們只有不斷地學習,努力提高自身素質,才能真正勝任高中音樂欣賞課教學工作。
二、巧妙運用音樂教育教學藝術。
高中音樂欣賞課內容繁多,涉及到古今中外各種各樣的音樂作品,受閱歷和知識的製約,學生不可能對這些內容都很感興趣。他們往往是根據個人的興趣、愛好,對不同的樂曲採取不同的學習態度。喜歡的就抱積極的態度去欣賞;不喜歡的,就表現出厭煩情緒,以消極的態度去應付,不認真聽,不動腦想。籤於這種情形,在教學中,我就先從導語入手激發學生的學習興趣。所謂導語是教師導入新課的語言,是課堂講課的第一個環節。俗語說:"良好的開端等於成功的一半”。比如在教民歌部分時,課前就有聽到同學說民歌沒意思,土里土氣的,不喜歡聽,沒興趣欣賞。然而我在課前做了大量的準備工作,蒐集資料,設計方法。上課一開始,我就出示了兩句樂譜:一句是《沂蒙山》的民歌,另一句是《十五的月亮》,先讓同學們視唱,並分析、比較它們的異同點,然後說明, 《十五的月亮》是以山東民歌為基礎,演變加工而成的。這說明民歌是音樂創作的源泉,它在音樂創作中具有十分重要的Claire Hsu意義。隨後,教師提出要求,這節課要和大家一起來欣賞幾首民歌,這樣,同學們的興趣被調動起來,課則上得很順利。
三、精心傳授音樂作品欣賞方法。
音樂欣賞僅僅停留在興趣階段是遠遠不夠的,還必須進一步深刻理解音樂作品的內涵,充分體驗作品所反映的情感,才能達到欣賞的目的。這就是欣賞音樂的三個階段:直覺(感官)欣賞----感覺(情感)欣賞----理智的欣賞。不同體裁的音樂欣賞的要求、方法也不同:
對於歌曲的欣賞:一般可以藉助歌詞較直觀地理解歌曲內容,達到欣賞的目的。對一些歌詞內涵較深或者寓意較朦朧的作品進行欣賞,要求要有一定的文學及文化素養。而對於一些古代的、其他民族的、外國的藝術歌曲、歌劇、詠嘆調等作品的欣賞,除了必須具有一定的音樂素質之外,還要對作品產生的時代背景、創作動機、民族習俗、作曲家的個人風格等有充分的了解,才能更好的理解作品的new Harvard's car models內容。

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